Wednesday, March 31, 2004

Happy Late Wednesday

I was really busy at work today. Too much to do and not enough time. And then it was home to do some more moving. Thanks for friend Aaron and his purdy new truck we were able to move LOTS of stuff. We only have a few things left, mainly garbage to throw out and a little cleaning. I can't wait till this part is over.

I have to say that I enjoy living in a home. It is so different. I am still getting used to all the space, although the more we bring over the more it fills. But I know a lot of that is just stuff isn't where it should be, closets, out of oversized boxes, etc.

Well, I gotta run. I'm sure there'll be more to chat about soon.

And my thoughts and prayers go out to the men and women who were brutally killed and paraded through and Iraqi town today. No one deserves to be treated in death that way.

Tuesday, March 30, 2004

It's String Cheese Man!

Ok, it's not every day one sees the Sorrento String Cheese Man at your work. Well, we did. I know there will be photos up at The Daily Dave (oh sorry Daily Daal) and Side Salad later so you can see how funny it was. And by the way, string cheese is VERY yummy! And fun to eat.

Monday, March 29, 2004

Weeeeeeeeee!

Vrooom! That's how fast my Internet connection is now! Say bye-bye to dial-up and HELLLOOO road runner! Weeeeee!
Many, I'm going sooo fast I cannot almost see myself...Now I'll be able to utilize photos more here since uploading photos will be very easy and fast. Well, that's once I figure out where I PUT the digital camera and accessories...photos soon, I hope. I am still looking for clothing that I can't figure out where I put them...I did find the shoes though!

Tired...so tired

Wow. What a whirlwind of a weekend. Working Saturday, more packing and moving. And then suddenly it was Monday morning again and I know I could have slept longer. I want to take the time to thank those helping this weekend. Thanks Aaron, Adam, Mike and Roy. You guys are awesome. And a big thanks to my Dad and Mom. Mom brought yummy food for lunch and dinner, and the best part, a huge Texas chocolate cake. Yum! And they helped move our waaayyy too many clothing over. (Time to pare them down again.) Without your help, hubby and I would still be moving right now. Yes, right now.

Tonight it's back to the apartment for more moving of stuff.

When is it nap time?

Friday, March 26, 2004

The Apprentice

Katrina, You're fired!

Unfortunately we missed the first 10 minutes of the show so we didn't see whose idea it was that brought down Katrina, Amy and Nick. But from the rest of the show that I did see, I saw that the other team went after the high rollers, the ones who they knew would be spending the big bucks. And that was a great idea.

Now, I have never been a Katrina fan. I know she is smart, but I didn't think she was anything special. She didn't really shine. And what through me about her was the task in real estate, which she is supposedly a star in and she bombed. If she couldn't get the task with her specialty right, what makes me think she is great in other areas?

I think the three man team is really strong. Bill, is quietly making strides and may be the one to beat. I believe Kwame is nice, but I think he has been riding the coat tales of successful teams and has been lucky. I think he might be next, except his team is so strong.

I do like Amy and I hope she will be a finalist, among the women I think she is one of the smartest and business savvy. But I don't know if her alignment and now dissing of Nick in front of the Donald will be her downfall.

I love that show! I will be sad when it ends.

What the?

From what I understand about this Laci Peterson law, the law currently in Congress to make it a crime if you kill a fetus during a crime. So how does that fit in with Roe vs. Wade? How can you truthfully have both laws on the books at the same time? They totally contradict each other. One says, yes you may abort your child, it is your right, a fetus is not a life up till certain times. This law says that the fetus is life and it is protected. I'm not taking sides here. Just pointing out one of the laws (if the Laci/Conner Peterson law is passed) will be struck down.

There are some interesting things coming up with this one.

Thursday, March 25, 2004

Another one down

Dynegy exec., Jamie Olis has been sentenced to 24 years in federal prison. And he won't be getting out early because it is federal. He is 38 and will be 62 when he gets out.

See Martha wasn't a fluke. Unfortunately the Tyco trial seems to be breaking down. There are now reports that the jury is having severe problems deliberating and is being called "poisonous."

I am glad that we are beginning to see some of these men go down the river. It's time these execs. see if they break the law they won't be getting a slap on the wrist.

Next!

Say hello to Mrs. Homeowner

Well, we did it. We handed over lots of dough and in turn received a home.
Observations:
1. You are at the mercy of these people when it comes to closing. Just because they tell you the day before this is going to happen here and at this time, doesn't mean it will. They can call you 25 minutes before and tell you they have pushed back the time, and this apparently happens all the time.
2. Do hand exercises prior to starting the signing. You can get some real good hand cramps if you don't while going through the inches of paper that you must sign.
3. Get good help - realtor and finance side. Because most likely you won't know what you are reading, and they can tell you. Thanks to George and June!
4. It is a great feeling. Knowing that all the hard work has finally paid off. And another reason to make sure you are careful with your credit because it would suck to live in an apartment forever..I can't wait to move, houses are cool.

We already met some of the neighbors. They came over an introduced themselves. Looks like there are lots of friendly people there with many kids who actually PLAY outside!

Coming to a home near me and some of you....a house warming party/block party.

Home is a good place to be.

Tuesday, March 23, 2004

Tomorrow, Tomorrow!

Is just a day away...

Tomorrow we close on the house so I will be out and about all day. Very exciting. Hubby will be mowing the law for the first time tomorrow.

Ahh..domestic bliss.

Wish us well.

Monday, March 22, 2004

Kooks Are Out At the Flea Market Again

Man! Working at the Flea Market is a crazy thing. The people out there are kooks. Still the people and their dogs. What's with that? Do dogs not know how to walk now? I am wondering since so many people out there like to carry them like children. And the choice of clothing out there is interesting. Usually, it's the lack of it. And what's with the middle aged women with the bad hair pieces? You know the curly extensions that are obviously fake and do NOT make their owners look younger? But only like Dolly Parton on a bad day. It is always interesting and never boring. And we are still not talking about the vendors. To our left is a gun shop, left and forward porno, front, silk plants, right sports stuff, right forward some hippy stuff. Some of the stuff you can find there...lots of women's underwear, hot tubs (I would LOVE one of those!), grave marker sales, a wine shop, old computer shop, old vacuum shop, jewelry (plenty) and a women you can pay to paint your loved ones name on a mural she's been painting. Oh yea, lots of beer.

Friday, March 19, 2004

Spring has SPRUNG!

Walked out my front door this morning into a beautiful Spring day in West Central Florida. The sun is shining and everything and I do mean EVERYTHING is blooming today. (In fact last night when I was taking the garbage out I was looking up at one of the many oak trees that line one of the parking pads at my apartment complex and I noticed that the tree looked fuzzy. I walk closer, it is one of the late bloomers, it is covered from top to bottom in pollen hanging from every crevice.)

From the oak trees to every know flower and flowering bush and tree that could bloom, is! I looks lovely but it starts out with the tickle in my sinuses and the next thing you know I'm sneezing and my sinuses hurt. I want to go out side and enjoy the weather...maybe when a few things finish blooming. But by then it will be almost 90 and I will stay inside just to stay cool and comfortable.

Spring officially starts tomorrow, but it's been Spring here for a while, and we've got the Spring breakers and snow-birds here to prove it.

Happy early Spring equinox!

Thursday, March 18, 2004

Proud to be an American...

A big congratulations to my hubby's aunt Anna in becoming a naturalized citizen this morning. She was one of more than 300 in a morning ceremony who were naturalized. And I understand there was one this afternoon. So there are lots of new citizens in the Tampa Bay area today.

Congrats!

Wednesday, March 17, 2004

Top O' the Mornin'!

Happy St. Patrick's Day. Are ye wearing yer' green today? I am. I have some Irish blood flowing through my veins. My grandmother's maiden name was O'Connor, as one of the five original tribes of Ireland, and her Irish relatives came to the U.S. from Limerick, as made famous by Frank McCourt's Pulitzer Prize winning novel Angela's Ashes.

So in honor of the day here's a little history on the man of the day St. Patrick:

Patrick was really a Brit., he was born in Britain around the end of the fourth century. He was taken prisoner by Irish raiders that were attacking his families estate and was held captive in Ireland for six years. During this time he became deeply religious while seeking solace in his situation. Eventually he escaped back to Britain. He was told by a voice he believed to be God to return to Ireland to convert Irish pagans to Christianity. (Although some believe he introduced Christianity to the green isle, he actually was sent back to not only convert but to minister to the Christians there.) He incorporated traditional Irish symbols into Christianity rather than forcing the Irish to lose their traditions. This includes using the bon fire during Easter (we always light a fire during the Easter vigil to symbolize Christ's light) and incorporating the sun into the cross, this has become the Celtic Cross. He spent his life ministering to the Irish and eventually became the Bishop, which he almost didn't get because he didn't have the proper book learning usually required. He is believed to have died on or around March 17 460 AD.

There is only 2 known documents attributed to Patrick and where we received the most knowledge about his life is through The Confession of St. Patrick. It's a little long, but interesting.

If you want to read about some famous Irish folks try here. (Note, Ireland is a progressive country now. They have had two women presidents, and as you know, that's 2 more than the U.S.)

So even if you have no Irish lineage (everyone can't be blessed like that) enjoy the day and have may the luck o' the Irish be with you today!

Tuesday, March 16, 2004

A Movie Must

Last night I sat down and watched HBO's Iron Jawed Angels. It chronicles the heroics of women sufferagists in the early 20th century. Specifically it centers around the "radicals" Alice Paul and Lucy Burns. These young women, they were in the late 20's, went toe-to-toe with politicians, including then president Woodrow Wilson, society, other women and even the organization that was leading the fight at the time, The National American Women Suffrage Association. They believed whole-heartedly in their fight and noted the hypocrisy of the president in going to war to liberate those who don't have say in their own governments, as women in the US didn't.

They did unpopular things such as protesting out front of the White House in whatever weather from dawn to dusk. They protested during the war. They went to jail on trumped up charges and Alice lead a hunger strike that got her labeled as a trouble maker and they forced fed her so they wouldn't have a martyr.

They won.

I think this is the type of movie that should be shown in history classes. It uses direct quotes of speeches, letters and editorials. As a young woman myself I cannot totally appreciate what these women went through because I have always had the rights they fought so hard for. But watching this movie really puts a human face on the issue and appreciate those battles.

I want to point out an extraordinary part in the film. The character Emily Leighton played by the wonderful Molly Parker. She was the wife of a U.S. senator who began to see how important women's rights were. At first she was behind the scenes supporting the group with her money. Then her husband found out and closed her bank account and told her she would have to pay for household goods with credit and he would pay the bills. The last straw? He threatened to take her children away from her because she had taken them to a protest rally. He accused her of being a bad mother and that "No judge in the district would give you custody." And how could she pay for a lawyer, she has nothing. The light went off in her head. She was nothing to her husband in his eyes and she had nothing. Everything was his and his alone. She started protesting and went to jail too. And she tells her husband the only reason she is doing this is for her daughters so they don't have to do it.

This internal struggle portrayed was amazing. I wonder if I were her would I have stood up or would have I been pushed into submission like so many other women of her stature?

But I am lucky, unlike her, I will never have to make that choice. If you have HBO see it! If not, I am sure it will be available out there for rental. It's time more people understood what had to happen for women to be granted the same rights as men and the same rights for those we fought a war over.

Irritation Gone Awry!

Went to my neighborhood drugstore last night to pick up some cortisone cream to get rid of an obnoxious rash that has had taken up residency on my neck area. I thinkin', no problem! How many creams can there be? The first problem, finding the right type of cream. I walk down the first isle and I find more creams than I ever could have imagined intended for hemorrhoids. Any many advertised quiet largely that they were for anal itch. Yes, many were cortisone cream...but I wasn't buying anal cream for my neck.

Up and down the isles I went looking for anti-itch and rash cream...FINALLY! There they were. All 4 or five shelves. Who knew there could be so many?? Creams, gels, pads, cloths...OYE! .5%, 1%, super, moisturizing, with oatmeal, with aloe..etc..etc..All for some rash cream! I am beginning to think there are just too many choices. Do I need a PHD to know what to buy?

Monday, March 15, 2004

"Beware of the Ides of March!?"

Happy Ides of March to all! I, like most people who hear that assume that it is a negative thing. I did some reading up on ideas and found out it is just the way in the Roman calendar that denoted the 15th of March, May, July, and October; the 13th in the other months. So the soothsayer to Julius Caesar was only warning that something bad was going to happen to him on that day.

So to all, Happy March 15th!

I fell pretty..oh so pretty!

I was packing again yesterday afternoon. I emptied out the curio cabinet, it was a big job because I have lots of expensive breakables in there and you have to be very careful in the packing. I'm such a freak in fact that I have kept all the boxes these items orig. came in and that packing.

I also keep my sparkly wedding tiara in there. So I took it out and didn't know what to do with it so I wore it while packing. It really made the ordeal more fun. Something about wearing a tiara makes you smile. Maybe I'll wear it more often. Maybe while watching TV, or reading a book, dancing around the new house. Nothing that would make it dirty because I know sister Karen has her eye on it to wear it in her wedding. Tiara wearing is highly underrated!

Friday, March 12, 2004

Are we crazy?

I looked at the top of the newspaper I work for today and was almost stunned to see what the fine editors here feel is the top story. A football player got canned, and that's number 1! Granted he is a nice football player, but he nevertheless, still a football player. While underneath plays the fact that the local big town has started giving partner benefits to employees and a bomb explosion in Spain that killed almost 200 which is purported to be the work of Al Qaida. I know there are varying interests in the community and we have to show that in our pages. I think there are very few cases when a sports person should be the top story on A1. And today, he shouldn't have been there.

Thursday, March 11, 2004

Martha, Martha, Martha!

I have been trying to ignore commenting on the Martha Stewart deal. But after hearing conversations and participating in a few I feel I have to.

I am getting tired of hearing all these feminists saying that Martha was railroaded because she was a woman. Why are they glancing over the facts that she was guilty and had more than 1 chance to redeem herself and she chose not to? She lied. Case closed. I wish these strong women would take up the causes of strong successful women who are acting inside of the law.

I am unhappy with how the media has been describing her though. The design-diva etc. And then all the hubbub on what she's wearing, her purse and that she is hard to deal with in business. Would a male exec. being tried ever be commented on his shoes, brief case or if he was a jerk in the board room. Doubtful. I do find this sexist.

I will be watching as these other CEO's come to trial and see if they are actually convicted and forced to pay as Martha did/does. If not I will cry foul.

But until then. Martha broke the law, and she knew better. She has to pay.

Wednesday, March 10, 2004

Women's History Month

March is Women's History Month. I know some people don't believe there should be any special designations given out like this, supports being separate or something. I found this interesting fact today while searching for some info. for work. In history books only 2 percent of text is devoted to women. Thus the need for the month because we just didn't and mostly don't learn about what women have done to contribute throughout history.

I also found this great article at womensenews.com about Mothers facing continuing discrimination. I found this article to be very thought provoking. Consider:

"We like to think that all women have choices today. But what kinds of choices do mothers really have? The choice to work our rear ends off in corporate jobs that refuse viable part-time positions or quit and stay home? The choice to go on welfare after a divorce and then be forced to work at Wal-Mart? The choice to never see our kids during daytime hours or never put our college degrees to work?

"I think it just goes back to old-fashioned discrimination against women," says Ann Crittenden, author of the "The Price of Motherhood: Why the Most Important Job in the World Is Still the Least Valued." "We lavishly support the things men choose to do, whether they choose careers in the military, or science, or farming, but we don't support the choices women make," Crittenden adds. Namely, the choice for women to bear and raise a child themselves."

and

"Crittenden and others believe the unpaid work of mothers needs to be quantified and measured by the Gross Domestic Product and also qualify for Social Security. Women who stay home to raise their children--the future taxpayers of America--unintentionally put themselves at financial risk. In fact, spending time out of the paid work force to raise children (or provide any type of unpaid caregiving work) can lead to poverty. This is amply demonstrated by the current cohort of retirement-age women, who are almost twice as likely to be poor than men in the same age group.

"We feel that the unpaid caregiving work that all mothers do has got to be recognized and valued by society," says Joanne Brundage, founder and executive director of Mothers and More, an Illinois-based advocacy group for mothers.

To help keep mothers and children out of poverty we also need viable part-time work options, health care, access to education and job training regardless of our economic status, and affordable, high-quality preschool and day care if we choose it for our children."

I do not have children. Just to upfront about that. But I know many who do and they are put in this situation daily. You are pulled in every direction. But it seems to me that all the lip service about being good parents and the benefits children receive when parents spend more quality time with them is just that, lip service. What democrat or republican is going to truly stand up for women and get bills passed that truly benefit the family? Also why are women looked down on in the workforce when they take time off to take care of their children? They should be applauded! This isn't just a woman's issue, there are many men staying home too now, they should be protected too. This is a family issue that effects this country to the core.

Check out the entire article
here.